20/03/2022 Supporting young people to talk about sex and relationships

A young multiracial straight couple hold each other and smile
Supporting young people to talk about relationships

We don’t talk about love enough. Or relationships. Or even sex. Despite being a fundamental part of life, it’s still something of a taboo. The Her Centre and Tramshed theatre in Greenwich, London are seeking to challenge that with their social prescribing project, supported by the Thriving Communities Fund.

We visited their event for funders and partners, entitled Her Centre’s Open Forum: Hear What We Want – Young People & Relationships to find out about what they’ve been up to and how they are changing lives.

Social prescribing isn’t just knitting for older people or gentle yoga in the park. It’s a very vibrant, practical and powerful tool that supports people of all ages. This project and their partners work with young people from 13 to 25, many of whom attended the morning.

It’s fair to say that at times, everyone in the room felt a little uncomfortable. We discussed sex, pornography, domestic abuse, coercive control and more. But we also spoke about love, friendship, support, and what healthy relationships look like. Representatives from Little Fish Theatre, Her Centre, SafeLives, Youth Live Well, Volunteering Matters and Charlton Athletic Community Trust delivered engaging sessions that made everyone, of all ages, stop and think about the relationships they have and the relationships they see in others.

At its core, this project is about raising young people’s self-esteem and growing their confidence that they can have healthy and flourishing relationships, and that they can articulate what that looks like for them. It’s about developing the tools to enable them to be heard when they want to speak up about this important area of life, whether that’s to a friend, to an adult, on social media or even on stage, through the drama work being done. It’s about ensuring that  they feel like their thoughts and feelings are valid and that their needs are being met.

It was fantastic to see what’s being done in the community, and how genuine connections are being formed. It’s easy to say that we’re proud and humbled by the work that the VCSFE (voluntary, community, social, faith and enterprise) sector is doing for people through social prescribing. But in this case, it’s entirely true.


The Her Centre supports women to move away from domestic abuse.


opens in new window